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2011Corrupting Children
I am bringing this up with precious little in the way of insight. Hopefully, some of you will have something to offer on the subject.
The ad below (please click on it to enlarge it to readable size) comes from a local paper and expresses concern with efforts to teach young children about sexual and gender diversity. (The title of this post comes from the name of the website responsible for this ad.)
Not having children, and never having thought about my gender identity or sexual orientation until a much later age, I am particularly ill-equipped to resolve the competing interests of opening young minds, teaching acceptance and making non-conformists feel more comfortable against confusing children, introducing age-inappropriate discussion, faith-based issues and the whole “Pandora’s Box” question.
I wonder whether I would have questioned my gender at a much more useful time in my life had I been introduced to these concepts then. Alas, there is no way of knowing.
I wonder whether such instruction will result in a spike in people who see themselves as transgender in some way – and if so, whether this is a good or bad thing. (I am guessing that this would largely depend on whether such self-characterization were accurate or delusional.)
I know we tgirls would probably like to see a world where gender is seen as something more flexible, and perhaps optional, than it is nowadays… a world where the words “man” and “woman” had become somewhat obsolete as descriptions of gender.
Wouldn’t it be nice if everyone was just a person – a person who could choose a gender role, and bed-mates, simply according to their desire?
Or would that all end up in mass confusion and the destruction of family formation?
trish1700
My oldest daughter is a graduate of Ithaca College, happily married and works on Park Ave. in NYC. My other daughter is working on her masters degree while playing her last year of NCAA Div. 1 volleyball as a full scholarship athlete. We must have done something right.
Schools should stick to teaching the three R’s and leave the rest to parents. We live in a middle class community, and I was PISSED when my girls would come home saying the teacher said TV was bad, or what foods were bad, etc.. Even went so far that one year they gave out awards to kids who stopped watching TV. I also resented them promising young kids “prizes” for selling junk to friends and neighbors. Would not let them do it. Do we really want Ms Jones or Mr. Smith teaching our children about sex? From what I read they are not doing a very good job with the three R’s.
Food for thought. Recently a high ranking government official made the following statement: “Americans must develop a taste for the types of food the government feels is proper for them to eat.” Sounds scary to me.
Trish
shantown
Amen, Trish/. This whole educational concept is ludicrous. The three R’s reference is right on the nose. Somebody needs to look at the agenda of the folds behind all of this. This is really odd considering so many governments, educational systems, etc. are completely banning any type of religious “promotion” (for lack of a better word here”.
One would not have to stretch too far to see a comparison to Nazi Germany….the government will tell you what it wants you to learn and believe, all ofther views and agendas are disallowed. This is shoving a particular view down the throat. Whatever view that might be, I am totally against it.
AshleyP
However. What needs to be taught is tolerance for others and other views. As person who has experienced hatred from a fundamentalist solely for being trans, I can attest that more tolerance needs to be taught.
cdjanie
I think you have made a simple but important point. Teach acceptance and love for others, whether different or not, and the specifics will take care of themselves.
shantown
Exactly. Well said.
shantown
Janie and Ashley, I agree, but I don’t know that the classroom is the place to teach tolerance, acceptance, and love. The best way to teach those things is to SHOW them….teach them by example. Let children see these things in action,in the lives of those adults around them. As a teacher myself, I know that children learn a great deal from what they see in family members and friends around them. They are always watching…
What’s that old say;ing…… actions speak louder than words. Don’t ell them about these things in class, show them in everyday life…